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This woman is slowly starting to see something she didn't know she had: Secondary Trauma. She plans to learn about the signs of secondary trauma and how to recognize 'em.
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Signs You Might Have Secondary Trauma and How to Recognise It

When you spend time supporting others through their struggles, it’s easy to overlook your well-being. You might not notice how much their pain weighs on you until it affects your thoughts, emotions, and how you see the world. Secondary trauma, also called secondary traumatic stress or vicarious trauma, builds up over time. If left unaddressed,…

Here we can see a man venting out his traumas to his therapist. His goal is to understand Secondary Trauma: Caring Without Breaking.
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Understanding Secondary Trauma: Caring Without Breaking

When we talk about trauma, we usually focus on those who experience it firsthand. But what about the people who listen, support, and care for them? Whether you’re a therapist, healthcare worker, social worker, first responder, or even a friend or family member helping a loved one through a tough time, constantly witnessing pain can…

A woman can be seen in bed, wondering about what's possibly causing her to feel little to no sexual desire. There are Psychological And Physiological Factors At Play here.
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Low Sexual Desire: Psychological and Physiological Factors at Play

Libido is a complex aspect of human sexual function. It is sexual desire or the drive to participate in sexual activity. Several factors contribute to one’s libido, including sex, sexual fantasies, interest, and seeking sexual activity. The influences on libido are multifactorial, and it changes with age and hormones, and fluctuates within relationships. However, if…

A woman is viewing her latest pregnancy test, seeing that it came back negative, which is what she & her husband have been hoping for due to them deciding to not have kids.
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Why It’s Okay to Choose a Life Without Kids

“When are you going to have kids?” Many of us have heard this question from our parents who wish to become grandparents or even friends of the same age who want to exchange parenting tips. But what if we don’t see ourselves having kids?  Negative Pregnancy Tests have Different Perspectives Whilst for many, it feels…

A man's looking his laptop and seems worried. He stands his head.
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Stress and Its Impact on Sexual Desire

Stress is an inevitable part of life, and while it helps us react to challenges, it can significantly influence our physical and emotional well-being. One area of health that often goes overlooked is how stress impacts sexual desire. Although it is commonly believed that stress decreases sexual interest, the reality is more complex. Research has…

A group of children working together to create a masterpiece using nature elements such as petals and twigs.
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The Benefits of Arts and Crafts in Nature for Children

Spending time in nature is a fundamental need for many, playing a vital role in maintaining emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. It is well-documented that time spent in natural settings can strengthen heart health, regulate sleep, lower blood pressure, and reduce the risk of chronic diseases. In addition to these physical benefits, nature also significantly…

Procrastination

Why saying you’ll start next week won’t work

My closet had been screaming for a clean-up for years. I kept coming up with excuses not to do it, until one day I just started the project and didn’t stop until everything was  tidy and organised. Procrastination is something that I come across very frequently in  therapy and just like my closet re-organisation, many keep…

Avoidant Attachment

Sex and Intimacy: The Avoidant Attachment

Attachment styles are ways of relating to others that are learned in early childhood. There are four main attachment styles described in the literature: secure, anxious-ambivalent, avoidant, and disorganized. People with different attachment styles tend to have different types of interpersonal relationships.  For example, people with an anxious attachment style might have a lot of…