Then s/he proposed and s/he said yes ! .. the good, the bad the ugly that comes along.

Yes wedding day is considered to be one of the best days in the couple’s life but it is can also be considered to be the most stressful for some due the preparations needed. Moreover studies show how couples are finding themselves getting into loans that sometimes take years to pay. Couples are admitting of getting competitive and want their guests to be satisfied as much as possible. It will be a good idea that couples get recommendations from previous wedded couples on the best suppliers which are value for money and good service providers. This can give more peace of mind on the decisions taken. Moreover some newlywed couples admitted of not enjoying their day fully as they were too busy with the wedding run through. On the other hand sometimes there are the families from both partners who intervene on the couples decisions and this can create unnecessary tension on the couple. It would be more beneficial if relatives understand the couple’s needs and respect that thoroughly whilst helping when needed.

My advice is this.. brides..no need to be bridezillas!.. As for the couples please enjoy your wedding day and the process in between , search for recommendation and don’t go overboard just because. Remember that weddings are meant to be a celebration of love and not of material things that are just there to make it look abit more sparkled!

Therisa is a psychology graduate who worked in the HR sector for the past 4 years. She decided to change her career path and thus is at present an intern at willingness and will continue to focus on psychology practices.