This is a question that most people have thought of at some point in their lives but how can anyone know the answer? Is it up to the partner to decide or you? Are there standards of “good” sexual performance? … Read more
Is my attachment style affecting my sexual life?
You may have realized that you have a behavioral pattern in your relationship with others including your partner, friends, family members, etc. This pattern can include your attitudes, beliefs and expectations in the context of the relationship. This situation can … Read more
3 Common Misconceptions About Asexuality
Asexuality can be used as a label for a person who does not experience sexual attraction. However, like everything that revolves around sexuality, there is no clear black or white categorisation. A lot of misconceptions can arise from its quite … Read more
3 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Sext
As a result of the COVID-19 pandemic, most of us have seen changes in our sex lives and sexual habits. For example, since it has become increasingly difficult to meet up with sexual partners in person, many people have turned … Read more
I don’t like my body and it is affecting my sexuality
Body image simply refers to the way you see your body. Body image involves your emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and expectations over your physical self. Depending on the perception you have of your body, your body image can be negative, positive, … Read more
My partner wants to have sex twice as much as I do
Within a relationship, sometimes it is hard to agree on the frequency of sex. Some people want to have more sex while others want less. Deciding on the frequency of sex is an important issue and often causes disagreement in … Read more
I have an STI and don’t know how to tell my partner
An STI is a sexually transmitted infection, which as the name implies, is an infection that is transmitted through sexual activity from one partner to another. Common STI’s include chlamydia, genital herpes, warts, gonorrhoea and syphilis. A person with an … Read more
I struggle with PMS every month
Premenstrual syndrome (or PMS) is a condition that can affect a woman’s physical health, emotions and behaviours during certain days in her menstrual cycle. The symptoms usually start around a week before menstruation, and typically go away once menstruation begins. … Read more
5 Ways Sex Therapy Can Help My Sex Life
Sex Therapy, or Sex and Reltaionship Therapy, is a form of therapy where the main focus lies on sexual and / or relationship difficulties. The therapist and the client explore the presenting and immediate difficulty; this may be problems with … Read more
My 5-year-old son told me they’re a girl
Delving into the lives of transgender individuals and the hurdles they experience sheds light on numerous difficulties faced, mostly because of society’s reaction to their gender identity. This topic gets even messier when talking about trans children because how can … Read more