Lube, short for “lubricant”, is a gel or liquid being used with the aim of increasing comfort and pleasure while decreasing friction during sexual activities. The motto is “The wetter, the better”. Asking yourself whether you are using the right … Read more
Lube: What, How and Why?
A slippery substance called lube, also known as “lubricant”, is used to reduce friction while engaging in sexual activity. Contrary to popular belief, lube is a great addition to anyone’s sex life and is not just for those who have … Read more
What’s it like to date while transitioning?
We can all agree that dating in general is hard enough. Dating while transitioning adds so many different levels of complexity to the equation. Some of the issues that trans* people face when dating include: coming out to every person … Read more
Is Make-up Sex Good for a Relationship?
We have all watched that scene in a movie where the main characters have a massive fight which turns into a night of hot passionate make-up sex and thought “that looks like fun”.
Define ‘make-up sex’…
It would typically refer … Read more
How to Support Someone who is Transitioning
Transitioning from one gender to another can be an exciting and stressful time. When someone we care about is going through this experience, we want to be as supportive as we possibly can – but we might not be sure … Read more
Dealing with Delayed Ejaculation
Ejaculation and orgasm in men are frequently represented as overlapping processes, yet they are two different physiological events. Ejaculation is the act of emission and expulsion of semen, whereas orgasm is the transient sensation of pleasure that is frequently accompanied … Read more
Am I addicted to Viagra?
Coming across this blog, you might have experience with Viagra intake yourself or might be afraid of giving it a try because it could turn into an addiction. For everyone who never heard of Viagra before:
It is a blue … Read more
Myth Busting: Vaginismus
What is Vaginismus?
Vaginismus is a reaction of fear, to having anything penetrate the vagina. It is caused by the tightening of the vaginal muscles and pain may be experienced during penetration. This interferes with sexual intercourse, not by inhibiting … Read more
Sex Addiction
Humans are by nature a highly sexual species. To deny our sexuality is to deny our humanity. Only by embracing our sexuality in its full expanse can we come to terms with what it means to be human.
Sex addiction … Read more
5 Ways to Help Your Vaginismus
The term “vaginismus” refers to vaginal pain primarily brought on by the muscles in the outer third of the vagina contracting unintentionally throughout or in preparation for penetration. As a result of the pain, penetration is either challenging and unpleasant … Read more