But there is something else to consider seriously. I meet many parents who would opt to stay at home if they had the opportunity. Luckily there are legal arrangements today to help parents and I am glad to see that … Read more
Infidelity: The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships
At the onset of a serious relationship, when couples start envisioning a future together, they often spend long periods of time discussing their beliefs, wishes and desires out of life to assess their long-term compatibility.
The issue of boundaries within … Read more
Long Distance Relationships: Far apart, but close at heart?
It’s not uncommon for couples to be challenged by long distance. Whether it’s spending a semester abroad, relocating for work, or having to move back home to help a loved one in need, having to spend some time in a … Read more
I never thought I would do it… Part 2 of 2
A couples of months back Willingness had the pleasure of bringing Professor Mehmet Sungur to our island who is a renowned Sex Therapist and Professor of Psychiatry for a workshop regarding the topic of infidelity. Recently I found myself pondering … Read more
I never thought I would do it… – Part 1 of 2
Recently I found myself reflecting on the notion of infidelity. This is by no means an easy topic for anyone to discuss due to its implications on their relationship with their partner or spouse. Despite the way individuals perceive infidelity, … Read more
A look at Domestic Violence: Gender
Working within the field of domestic violence, one notices that the overarching majority of clients have tended to be female clients. Even if one had to do a quick google image search one will realise that the way in which … Read more
A look at DV: Aggressor
Following the previous blog, a concept which is perhaps often not given enough attention in situations of DV is the aggressor, which like the victim could be of either gender. By no means am I condoning the behaviour of aggressors … Read more
Change: Why don’t we like it?
“I don’t like changes.” Familiar? A lot of us don’t like changes, we rather continue with what we are doing/good at. What is it, that makes us resist change?
Let’s have a look at the reasons for change. One reason … Read more
How do I support a relative with a mental illness? – Part 4 of 4
When you care for someone, the person may become very dependent on you. Being there for your relative is imperative; however, you will need to make sure that you do not reinforce their dependency, as this will not be beneficial … Read more