My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three years. A couple f years ago, she confessed to having slept with a co-worker whilst she was already dating me. She assures me that ever since this co-worker left the … Read more
Why do I get attracted to unavailable partners? – Part 2 of 2
To continue where we left off in part 1, we were exploring the psychological concepts behind why sometimes we get attracted to unavailable partner.
- Self-esteem issues
The manner in which we understand our own worth is usually by comparing ourselves … Read more
Why do I get attracted to unavailable partners? – Part 1 of 2
Let’s face it we have all been there, there are times in which we get attracted to individuals who simply are not ready to commit to us on an intimate level for one reason or another. Within these relationships one … Read more
Can romanticism ruin our chances of having a healthy long-term relationship?
Falling in love with someone is portrayed as a wondrous and spontaneous process filled with glitter and fireworks. It can sound strange and maybe even insulting to suggest that pairing up can be determined by culture, society and attachment more … Read more
Valentine’s Day for the recently divorced or separated
If this Valentine’s Day is your first after your separation or divorce, then perhaps you may not be looking forward to it as much other couples may be. Shop windows displaying their Valentine’s day gifts, restaurants promoting romantic dinners and … Read more
My partner is away on Valentine’s Day
While Valentine’s Day holds a different meaning for different people, many couples seek to do something special with their loved one on the day in order to celebrate their relationship. This can be somewhat tricky and potentially difficult to deal … Read more