We constantly hear about red flags in relationships, like when there is a lack of trust, co-dependency, or other unhealthy behaviours. But what about green flags? It is just as important to note that there can be green flags in … Read more
Are you experiencing sexual jealousy?
Jealousy is a common feeling among all people, of all ages and cultures. It might be that a little girl feels jealous of her sister getting more attention from the mother, a friend who is jealous of their classmate who … Read more
Is Sex a Weapon for Revenge?
After breakups or in relationships we have different ways of coping – we might have an impulse to throw away everything that reminds us of them, or else we might even tell them “sex is off the table”, using sex … Read more
“We don’t have time for sex anymore”
Whether it is due to poor work-life balance, kids, or general struggles in life, more and more people are concerned about the frequency of their sexual activities nowadays. It is easy to conclude that one or both parties within a … Read more
Am I Polyamorous?
Relationship styles and structures come in various forms. Many people may not know this, because society only ever teaches us about finding ‘the one’ and that loving more than person romantically is wrong. However, the truth is that, like many … Read more
Matching Frequencies – Dealing with Different Sex Drives
Sometimes we find ourselves in relationships with people who have different sex drives from us. Sex drive is the libido, meaning the enthusiasm or interest that a person has in engaging in sexual activity. Sex drive varies from person to … Read more
Online vs Offline Interactions
Undoubtedly, there is space and value in both online and offline interaction. The COVID-19 pandemic has shown us the value of having the opportunity to connect through online means. At a time when physical proximity was not an option, being … Read more
Building Anti-Fragile Relationships
Many believe that they should work on their relationship with their partner when something happens, or when they go through a rough patch and start to argue more often. Relationships are not like a lifeless object, if a couple goes … Read more
Overcoming Cultural Boundaries in a Relationship
Being in a relationship with somebody from a different culture to yours can open you up to a beautiful new world you have never experienced before. You get the opportunity to learn about a new culture first-hand and engage in … Read more
I don’t like being naked in front of my partner.
When we are naked, we all look alike. – Right. This, however, doesn’t mean everyone is comfortable with being naked in front of others. Some of us have absolutely no problem with taking off their clothes and walking around naked, … Read more