Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress such as: family and relationship problems, serious health problems, workplace and financial stressors. Resilience is not a quality which you … Read more
Time to fly with the kids
Travelling; a word which used to make you feel happy and excited. Exploring a new country, seeing new things, learn about new cultures, taste amazing food, be away from work, relax, have time to yourself and the list goes on! … Read more
Some things to think about when planning to have a child – Part 2 of 2
This blog is a continuation to my previous blog entitled Some things to think about when planning to have a child- Part 1. In my previous blog, an emphasis was placed on the couples’ right to choose whether and … Read more
Some things to think about when planning to have a child – Part 1 of 2
Traditionally, having children was the prime function of a marriage. It was often considered as the obvious next step for a married couple to become parents. I still experience that children are highly valued by many couples nowadays, but a … Read more
Holding your child’s hand from a distance
As a parent your instinct is to protect your child from harm, to hold them tight and to love them unconditionally. Helping your child to thrive and be successful may come natural. However, could you be overdoing it by overprotecting … Read more
More than just play
Have you ever looked at your child playing and stated “Oh how I wish I were still a child, all I would have to do is just play”? The importance of play may be underrated as during playtime children are … Read more
I hate his son
In the United States, stepfamilies are becoming more common than the biological family. This generally would entail that the new addition to the family has to start integrating into a system which has been already in place for a number … Read more
My mum expects me to be naughty. My mum wants me to obey. What shall I do to make her happy?
This may sound strange, but in the eyes of a child it is not clear whether he should follow parental instructions or satisfy the expectation of the parent. It is even stranger to accept that these are NOT one and … Read more
Why teenagers fire their parents
Parents often complain that their teenage children do not talk with them. It gives some assurance to see children turn to us for advice and comfort. When our children decide to turn to someone else to share their issues, it … Read more
Fear works miracles. The torturous method that survived through time.
Would you like a method that guarantees compliance? Use fear. If you do, be prepared to face some lashing from people. Society heavily sanctions the cruel use of fear with the aim of causing submission. This is most evident in … Read more