Families are complex system made of different independent parts. The aim of each part of the system is to co-exist in harmony amongst each other, taking on the benefits of being one whole system over a lonely self. The beauty … Read more
The Narrative of members of a family & The Curious Therapist – Part 3 of 3
Curiosity is about gaining knowledge about the different views of different members of the family. That is why therapist do a lot of questions and at times, end up going through very attentively difficult situations families have experienced. It is … Read more
The Narrative of members of a family – Part 2 of 3
As explained in the earlier blog of this series, people usually interpret happenings in their family depending on what happened in the past. Sometimes through past intimate relationships they had or even through what they observed in their own families … Read more
The Narrative of members of a family – Part 1 of 3
It is often possible to look into families experiencing difficulties and find that one of the most fundamental disagreements is IF ACTUALLY HAVE A DISAGREEMENT. What statements usually give this away? “I do not know what the fuss is about?” … Read more
Am I doing harm to my children because I work? Part 5
Employment also gives meaning to our lives and has an impact on our well being. A wide array of studies and theorists have argued how a meaningful engagement to a career directly affects the person’s sense of pride and self … Read more
Am I doing harm to my children because I work? Part 4
But there is something else to consider seriously. I meet many parents who would opt to stay at home if they had the opportunity. Luckily there are legal arrangements today to help parents and I am glad to see that … Read more
Infidelity: The Importance of Boundaries in Relationships
At the onset of a serious relationship, when couples start envisioning a future together, they often spend long periods of time discussing their beliefs, wishes and desires out of life to assess their long-term compatibility.
The issue of boundaries within … Read more
Long Distance Relationships: Far apart, but close at heart?
It’s not uncommon for couples to be challenged by long distance. Whether it’s spending a semester abroad, relocating for work, or having to move back home to help a loved one in need, having to spend some time in a … Read more
I never thought I would do it… Part 2 of 2
A couples of months back Willingness had the pleasure of bringing Professor Mehmet Sungur to our island who is a renowned Sex Therapist and Professor of Psychiatry for a workshop regarding the topic of infidelity. Recently I found myself pondering … Read more
I never thought I would do it… – Part 1 of 2
Recently I found myself reflecting on the notion of infidelity. This is by no means an easy topic for anyone to discuss due to its implications on their relationship with their partner or spouse. Despite the way individuals perceive infidelity, … Read more