Jiena raġel ta’ 35 sena u qiegħed f’relazzjoni relattivament ġdida. Hija mara sabiħa ħafna kemm fiżikament u kemm bħala persuna u sinċerament naħseb li sibt il-‘waħda’. Diġà kellna x’naqsmu ma’ xulxin diversi drabi u qatt ma kellna problemi pero’ nistħi … Read more
Let’s talk..fat!
How many times have we heard the phrases, ‘’I really need to hit the gym’’ , ‘’diet as of next Monday’’ or ‘’look at this big fat belly!’’ These are what we call fat talk. Mimi Nichter (2000) explains fat … Read more
Active Listening – A great way to nurture your relationships
I have said in another blog that active listening serves to nurture relationships. So I feel it is necessary for me to dedicate some attention to this skill and try to provide some tips on how to use it effectively. … Read more
Why teenagers fire their parents
Parents often complain that their teenage children do not talk with them. It gives some assurance to see children turn to us for advice and comfort. When our children decide to turn to someone else to share their issues, it … Read more
Għandi ngħid lit-tfal li qiegħed f’relazzjoni?
Jiena armel b’żewġt itfal u xi sitt xhur ilu bdejt noħroġ ma’ partner ġdida. Immorru tajjeb flimkien – naqblu ħafna fuq dawk l-affarijiet li nikkunsidraw importanti – u riċenti issuġġeriet li nlaqggħu it-tfal tagħna ma’ xulxin. Hija armla bħali u … Read more
Meta għandi nkellem lit-tfal fuq infezzjonijiet li jiġu trażmessi sesswalment?
Jiena omm ta’ żewġt itfal, tifel u tifla, u x-xahar li għadda t-tifel, li huwa l-kbir, għalaq 13-il sena. Qed insir iktar konxja li t-tfal qed jimmaturaw u li f’kemm trid ikunu skoprew is-sesswalità tagħhom u jkollhom x’jaqsmu ma’ xi … Read more
Fear works miracles. The torturous method that survived through time.
Would you like a method that guarantees compliance? Use fear. If you do, be prepared to face some lashing from people. Society heavily sanctions the cruel use of fear with the aim of causing submission. This is most evident in … Read more
Il-mara moħħha biex tesperimenta
Jiena raġel ilni miżżewweġ lill-mara issa fuq 10 snin u din l-aħħar sena ma nafx għaliex taha li meta jkollna x’naqsmu flimkien dejjem trid jew tagħmel xi ħaġa ġdida jew inkella tuża xi sex toy. Nammetti meta fil-bidu ġiet … Read more
Sexual consent Part 2/2
In the last blog I began to discuss some very important points when it comes to sexual consent. It is important to remember that sexual consent is always explicit, you can always change your mind at any point, and only … Read more
Sexual Consent Part 1/2
In this time of the #MeToo movement, we need to talk about sexual consent in an open and firm way. In a nutshell, sexual consent is when you and your partner both agree to have sex. There are a few … Read more