Nohlom hafna drabi dwar is-sess. Issa qed nibza’ li jien iffissat fis-sess u li mhux se nsibha facli biex naqbad ma’ tfajla u nibqa’ ghal dejjem maghha ghax dejjem inkun irrid esperjenzi godda ma’ nisa differenti. Fil-fatt jien zaghzugh kwiet … Read more
Naghti Pjacir Lil Partner
Jiena tfajla ta’ 25 sena u ilni f’din ir-relazjoni mal – partner tieghi ghal dan l-ahhar sentejn. Kif nista’ naghti pjacir lil partner tieghi?
Nixtieq nibda billi nirringrazjak ta’ din l-email. Din hi mistoqsija li jsaqsuha hafna. Hafna huma … Read more
Sibt messaggi fuq Facebook
Jien mara ta’ 35 sena u ilni mizzewga 13 il sena. Ir-ragel tieghi, 45 sena, isiefer ta’ spiss fuq xoghol ghax ikollu hafna konferenzi izda jien dejjem afdajtu ghax dejjem urini rispett u ilna flimkien minn meta konna ghadna tfal. … Read more
Ma nistax ninqabad tqila
Ilna nipruvaw ghat-tfal ghal dan l-ahhar 6 xhur u vera qed naqta’ qalbi. Ghandi 30 sena u ghalhekk qed nibza li ha nispicca minghajr tfal. Qed naghmel kull ma jghiduli l-profesjonisti: niehu t-temperatura, ikolna x’naqsmu kull meta nkun fertili. Anke … Read more
Komunikazzjoni
Hu saqsa, “Tghid nghidulhom lil ommi jigu ghat-te’ llejla?”
Hi rrispondiet, “Mhux xorta…”
Hu cempel l-ommu u stidinha ghat-te’ u mil – mument li qatgha minn maghha nqala’ panik kbir id-dar. Wara hafna hars bl-ikrah u tghajjir qaltlu, “imma int … Read more
Niehdu responsabilta’ ta’ kliemna
“Int dejjem thalli l-banju mahmug warajk jaq!”; “Kemm int mahmug int a!? Xi hmieg ta’ banju thalli warajk!”. Kemm huma differenti dawn minn, “Vera nitqazzez nidhol fil – banju u nsib il-hmieg. Tista’ tibda tnadfu warajk?”.
Il-messagg hu l – … Read more
Komunikazjoni go relazzjoni
Iddecidejt li minhabba li rcivejt hafna korrispondenza ssaqsi dwar komunikazjoni u l-ahjar mod kif wiehed jista’ jikkomunika mal-partner tieghu se nghaqqadhom kollha f’daqqa u nikteb dwar il-kommunikazjoni fil-publikazjonijiet li gejjin.
Nisma’ hafna nies jghidu “ghax missu jaf”; “missha ndunat”; “ilna … Read more
Ma jistax ikollna tfal
Ghaziz Mr. M. Bartolo.
Ahna kopja mizzewga. Ilna mizzewgin ghal dan l-ahhar 10 snin u issa ilna sentejn nipruvaw ghat-tfal. Qed naqtaw qalbna ghax ghamilna hafna testijiet u kulhadd jghidilna li fizikament u medikalment m’ghandna xejn hazin. Dan l-ahhar hu … Read more
Tghid mhux jiehu pjacir?
Ilni mal-boyfriend tieghi ghal din l-ahhar sena u nofs u t-tnejn li ahna vera attivi sesswalment. Ikolna x’naqsmu xi erbgha darbiet fil-gimgha. Il-problema tieghi hi li filwaqt li jiena nuri li qed niehu pjacir waqt l-att hu ma tantx ikollu … Read more
What is your partner’s attachment style? – Part 2/2
- Dismissive-avoidant attachment style:
People with this attachment style feel comfortable without close relationships, it’s important for them to feel independent and self-sufficient. They don’t like to depend on others and have others depend on them. They may desire freedom, pushing … Read more