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However, the idea presented here is not alien, nor is it groundbreaking. The notion of confusion in infants is often hinted to in research, although it can be underlined more clearly. If we take what we know about children, we … Read more

Think about it. If have a system of consequence in place, are we not actually expecting the children to misbehave? If not, we would not have it in the first place. If we accept that kids do what is expected … Read more

Children need adults to help them socialise. Without adults, children cannot learn the ways of adults and in this way they could never receive the chance to be a meaningful part of society. It is this very thought which fuelled … Read more

Does your life feel like a roller coaster? Are you familiar with the feeling of helplessly travelling on a high speed voyage, which seems to have little purpose and no enjoyment of the journey? If yes, you are part of … Read more

Educators and caregivers have a responsibility to teach their children values like respect, patience, altruism, empathy and the value of earning your rewards. Parenting which ignores these lessons will result in a socialisation process (the process in which families teach … Read more

I was walking in the park on one sunny day. As I strolled quietly, I began to hear turmoil coming from a few metres ahead. I could only make out a few of the words that a child was shouting … Read more

When the last child is born, parents are more likely to be knowledgeable and confident in their parenting, therefore, being more relaxed and not as strict or as expectant as when parenting the eldest.

Being the last born means that … Read more

The birth of the first child is likely to be the most awaited but it is also the one that brings the most uncertainties in the parents.

The birth order effect describes firstborns as having the following characteristics:
◆ Mature… Read more

It has been determined that the most successful parenting follows the Authoritative style. This is characterised by supportiveness, structure and a democratic approach. Children are happier, capable and successful here. However, there are also three established styles which are deemed … Read more