“Who are you to tell me what to do? This is what I said and this is what I’ll do!!!”Have you ever heard these phrases? We can all admit that we have been through similar times. Most parents of teens … Read more
Parenting After Separation
”Separation is believed to have a negative effect on the behavior of children, however studies have shown that a majority of children do adjust to the change in the family structure. Although resilience is present, most children do not experience … Read more
Attachment Styles
A famous psychiatrist known by the name as John Bowlby, noticed attachment styles in infants. This attachment style is present between the infants and his/her caregiver, generally the parents. Attachment style is like the bond shared between the two persons. … Read more
I cannot handle my Child (Part V)
So far I have given my take on what can significantly improve one’s ability to address challenging behaviour. Hopefully what I have to contribute today is useful. My next tip is,
Your Child is unique in so many different ways. … Read more
I cannot handle my child (Part IV)
One thing I wish to avoid is to give parents the advice to focus on the positive, just for the sake of focusing on the positive. Many parents have challenged this proposal and have vigorously asked me to focus on … Read more
Positive Parenting
Parenting is difficult, there is no exact right or wrong way to go by it, however through positive parenting you can improve the relationship with your child.
Positive parenting can be defined as an approach to childcare that aids the … Read more
The shape our family gives us
Many say that our upbringing has some effect on our personality. Some psychologists also believe that it is also affected by one’s place in the family, or rather, the birth order.
Some studies show that first born are likely to … Read more
Sibling Rivalry
In a relationship between siblings, it is almost inevitable that conflict will arise and this may prove frustrating and stressful for parents.
Sibling rivalry usually happens when children are competing for parental attention or when they feel they are being … Read more
I cannot handle my child – Part 3
Today I continue my series, I cannot handle my child with an important topic. One drawback that certain parenting campaigns may have is that they tell you what you should not do. And this leaves you without options when you … Read more
I cannot handle my child – Part 2
In my last blog I explained that dealing with a difficult child requires a complex collection of skills and habits. We discussed last week that shouting, although may seem effective, can teach all the wrong lessons. Today I encourage parents … Read more